just turned up a whole daviswiki page on a church group i…almost joined…back when i first started college…
like. wow. i think i only dodged it because 1. living in the dorms was Enough social activity, thanks, i needed to focus on school, and 2. when i started looking around sophomore year, i found the lgbtrc and the word “genderqueer” first
bc i remember. where they are, what they were like (never interfacing with the multifaith community i became a part of, even though almost all other student faith groups did).
i think i asked them, about gayness and gender roles and expression. and though i was brand-new to thinking about this, it was enough to drive me away from them.
…it’s kinda nice to realize i avoided an abusive situation, even if i ended up in another one.