uh. contradiction there

if you say “i support all aces! this is a safe ace space! ace means anyone asexual demi or grey!”

and then also say,

“aces don’t experience any sexual attraction”  — uh, where did the demi and grey folks go suddenly?  and:

“it’s acephobic erasure to like X character having sex”  — uh, what about…the aces who have sex…

Hyper-kink-mode

Or, hypersexuality, kink-version, minus the sexuality.

NB:  I’m really not interested in talking about whether this is “normal” or not.

innate vs acquired

“Sexuality is more innate, while fetishes are more acquired from social grooming.”

???????????????????

responsive desire and fandom?

??????

i dunno yo. but this is a thing. dammit.

kinkshaming

i just find it especially funny that, with all the “don’t lump allos together!!  don’t hypersexualize lgb people or woc and don’t desexualize disabled people, and if you lump everyone into allo you’re sex-shaming and oppressive!”

is tooooootally the opposite with kink.  shame every single kinkster.  they’re all cishet white (((abled))) scum anyway who just wanna feel special.  if they say it’s to cope w neurodivergence or survivorhood that’s bad and they should fix it because their kink is oppressive!!