I clicked that so fast and my goodness do I recommend. Continue reading
My mom told me touch is my primary love language. (Ay, that book.)
True, touch is more intense to me than, apparently, many other people. (Maybe to do with autistic, maybe to do with hard-of-hearing, whatever.)
So why is it surprising that it’s also the most dangerous?
This is a brief(?) elaboration on why I consider Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) a vastly superior slogan to Safe Sane Consensual (SSC), and a bit of history on the two.
[content: kink, ableism and “sanity,” medical institutionalization and legal discrimination, brief discussion of abuse] Continue reading
[content: sexual pain and mild talk of genitals, masturbation; compulsory sexuality, pressure to have sex, manipulation]
I want to talk about “the point of no return” in sex, and feeling unable to withdraw consent. Continue reading
I have five partially-finished drafted posts for this blog, which could sort of be posted as-is, and zero spoons. Still here though. Maybe some direction would help.
Should I finish up the one about sexual pain disorders, the grey-a primer for therapists, the “hating allos” one, the femme one, or the giving/receiving one? Or write a brandnew one elaborating on rarity and attraction?