Paper and Crumpling and Intent

the ever-developing saga of how touch works for this fluxy-repulsed–hypersexual grey being

so i’ve written about being paper, about exploring paper maché, about getting wires crossed around maybe it’s more that i’m subby, maybe it’s about dissociating feeling like a tool and like having to make decisions/be Skilled and like too focused on orgasm + someone else

Hyper-kink-mode

Or, hypersexuality, kink-version, minus the sexuality.

NB:  I’m really not interested in talking about whether this is “normal” or not.

RACK vs SSC — Kink, Consent, Ableism, Agency

This is a brief(?) elaboration on why I consider Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) a vastly superior slogan to Safe Sane Consensual (SSC), and a bit of history on the two.

[content: kink, ableism and “sanity,” medical institutionalization and legal discrimination, brief discussion of abuse]

Trauma, Kink, and Processing

*Content warnings for many kinds of trauma*  Initially 1/6/15 here.

I have processed more trauma, more effectively, through kink, than in any other way.