religious orientation

coyote’s post got me thinking, about umbrella terms

ideals, you say

for the august 2015 carnival of aces

an ideal ace community? well, by loose sections:

Why “What Is Allosexuality?” is the Wrong Question (and Hurts Graces)

So I wrote a post responding to elainexe’s “Allosexuality and Compulsory Sexuality” (pondering about how we define allosexuality as reactive) back when I first saw it…but, tumblr ate it.  Now to recreate.

I think this is the wrong approach to take.

secular atheist witch update

[complete with intensity-of-belief grammatical formality markers]

safe(r) space commitments

[cw’s for invalidation, misgendering, my being angry]

for months now, i have been the only on-the-ground organizer for the first-and-oldest Icarus Project chapter.*

spinning out

(yknow maybe it is safer to post hard stuff here where it’s non-rebloggable / moddable; even though i’m used to throwaway tumblr sideblogs)

[[major self-victim-blaming / sexual abuse/rape / semi-explicit details]]

autistic grace touch stuff

so Elizabeth just re-linked Sciatrix’s old 2011 carnival of aces…and it has some really good gems.  mmm talking about Rent and touch.

noli me tangere especially speaks to me about paper maché things and touch sensitivity and frame-of-mind and dissociation and embodiment and selectively wanting touch overload zzzt and. dang.

this is when i wish i knew and was involved in old autistic and nb and grace community; the trans yadas, and dreamwidths, and all of that. it feels like identity groups were more concentrated back then.

rrrrrr i want more talk of touch and identity intersections.

enthusiastic

i mean, does it not say something about the model of “enthusiastic consent”

to try out the word, “sex-enthusiastic”

and see how utterly decontextualized and creepy that is?