open call for things i might like to read :0 Continue reading
Welp. Sorry ace uncon. It’s not you, it’s traffic + sore throat + being in a weird spot where talking about ace stuff might be dangerous/triggering/unsafe for me right now.
Back to writing in others’ comments sections, and the slow progress of therapy. Hell, maybe it’s time to jot over to the RAAS forum for a more controlled environment.
So as I’m trying to smith some sort of comprehensive naming and intentionality, to spotlight pieces that when brought up seem to somehow jar the “all experiences welcome” basic group rules…
Suddenly, a challenger appears! Continue reading
I have five partially-finished drafted posts for this blog, which could sort of be posted as-is, and zero spoons. Still here though. Maybe some direction would help.
Should I finish up the one about sexual pain disorders, the grey-a primer for therapists, the “hating allos” one, the femme one, or the giving/receiving one? Or write a brandnew one elaborating on rarity and attraction?
K, so. I’m currently freaking out a little and doing some serious reevaluating. Continue reading
Hullo permablog world, did I make it in time to party?
I’ve been blogging on Tumblr since 2011 and, well, it worked as a place to make strong statements but bury them in layers of fandom and miscellany in order to dodge criticism. Good job, past self.
Now, however…strong statements ahoy.
I expect this shall be a mix of unburying/dusting off the old, and generating the shiny new.
Topics to include are primarily non-binariness, ace-spectrum, and paper/stone, all intersected with disability and each other. Probably also featuring femmeness, kink, and glitchy grey metaphor feels. Very probably.
Now, is this a reasonable post length? Not essay, not three-liner? Everything’s properly capitalized? *Ok Cool Hey Alright*